Following on from yesterday’s story about what toyboys see in older women and their attractiveness we would like to include a bit more about why more and more younger men are choosing to date older women.
The message we get for the guys who have dated older partners is that they are more often settled into their lives and we all know that with age comes knowledge and understanding what it is to have a good time. That means appreciating that you don’t have to need to go out and get legless dancing in a club til 5am every weekend..
Women in their 40’s and 50’s tend to be more financially independent than their younger versions and this means they will be happy to do things like split the bill when they are out with their boy friend. This can be a very welcome rest bite for the guys who often are expected to pay for everything!
Also because of their experiences dating they understand how to manage a relationship to make sure its fulfilling and not lurch into a long rocky ride. They will have made mistakes in the past and learnt from them. Plenty of guys have had to deal with tantrums from their younger girlfriends but this is something thankfully that’s less prevalent in people with more life experience.
As for the other perspective of why older women would enjoy dating a toyboy, many mature women are young at heart and as such like the energy and similar youthful outlook that they possess. That said quite a few toyboys have an ‘old head’ on young shoulders and are looking for a lady who is more settled and wont mess them around.
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